To a friend who I am concerned about,I hope this letter will help u

Since i have known that u are having a hard time during these weeks,and i can't company with u.So i decided to write this letter hoping u could cheer up. We're taught that in life,we should try to look on the bright side,to be optimistic.But not in this case.In the love case,we should look on the dark side.Assume rejection first.Assume you're the rule,not the exception.It's intoxicatingly liberating.But we also know it's not an easy concept.Becasue this is what we do:We go out with someone,we get excited about them,and then do sth that mildly disppoints us.Then they keep doing a lot of things that disppoint us.Then we go into hyper-excuse mode for weeks or possibly months,because the last thing we want to think is the great man that we are so excited about is in the process of turnning us into a creep.Then,you begin to come up some explanations for why he is behaving that way,why he did not send u a message to care about u ,any explanation,no matter how ridiculous,than the one explanation that's the truth:he is just not that in to u. The first time i met u,i found that u are a beautiful,smart,kind woman,so that's why i treat u as my good friend.I do not want u to waste your time figure out why this guy isn't calling u or sending u a message.As i see,u shouldn't waste your pretty.We really care about u,and hope u can find a Mr right and get married,coz u r really a nice woman.U know me,i am always speaking directly and frankly,especially to my friend,coz i don't want to see u get hurt.So just free yourself to go find the one that is and cheer up.