Loving with an Open Hand
放爱一条生路I am learning that I must free the one I love for if I clutch or cling，try to control，I lose what I try to hold。
我学会了必须给所爱的人自由，如果我抓得太紧，紧握不放，没法控制，结果可能会失去他们。
I can say to the one I love：“I love you，I value you，I respect you and I trust that you have the strenght to becom all that it is possible for you to becom——if I do not get in your way。I love you so much that I can set you free to walk beside me in joy and in sadness。I will share your tears but I will not ask you not to cry。I will care and comfort you，but I will not hold you up when you can walk alone。I will stand ready to be with you in your grife and loneliness but I will not take it away from you。
现在我会这样告诉我爱的：“我爱你，珍惜你，尊重你，我相信你有足够的实力发展成为你想要成为的人——如果我不阻碍你的话，我是那么爱你，所以我给你自由，和我共享欢乐与悲伤。我会和你一起流泪，但我不会要求你停止哭泣。我会满足你的需要，关心你，安慰你，但在你能够独立行走时我不会阻挡你。我会时刻准备好，在你悲伤和孤独时站到你身边。但我不会把你的悲伤和孤独带走，我会尽力理解你的话语及其中涵义，但不会总是赞同。
I am learning to say this whether it be in words or in my way of being with others and myself，to those I love and for whom I call loving with an open hand。
对于那些我所爱和所关心的人，我正在学习这样表达，无论是用语言，还是用我对待他人及自己的方式，我把这种方式叫做放爱一条生路。
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